Children in Church
For way to long, I have felt that children have been left out of the adult experience of Christianity. By this I mean, children, youth, young married couples, young married couples w/children, couples w/o children, empty nesters, semi retired, retired, and finally the ancients of days have all been pigeon holed into their own groups. The early church wasn’t that way.
When I hear comments and see some peoples reactions to children in the church, I think back to the days of Jesus, when he was preaching and teaching to large crowds in many different environments. Men and women, men and women w/ children, women w/ babies etc, all, wanting to hear the words of the Master, all wanting to be in his presents.
Children love to be around adults. Why? Adults are what they want to be. They learn by watching. If their allowed to hang around adults, it makes them feel like adults. They become interested in what their adult group in talking about (Hopefully about spiritual matters). They come interested in their music (again hopefully spiritual) and in what the adult group is doing and experiencing ( prayer w/ signs and wonders). Get children /youth involved in reality based Christianity you won’t have to worry about who their friends are and what their doing when your not around. They will be acting like you.
In Jesus day the parents (Mother and Father) brought the children up in the fear and admonition of the Lord in the home. The children had the support of parents and the Jewish community in their up bringing. They lived their Jewish lives at home and the children knew how to act like Jews in the community. Likewise they knew how to act in community worship services and at synagogue.
When my wife and I had children, we took them everywhere with us. If we couldn’t take our children, we just wouldn’t go. Our children grew up knowing how to behave in church type meetings. My oldest son, when he was a baby, would go to Full Gospel Business Men, events with us and fall asleep under our chairs. We wanted our children to be in a Christian Community environment. Our children were given to us as gifts from God, to bring up in His ways.
There is a young boy in the small group we go to, that is very desirous of the Lord and loves to pray, so the leaders of our group cultivate that. Jesus understood the nature of children and even said that we should become more like them in our faith. Yes, there is place for children in the small group. Their presents should be a constant reminder of our obligations toward them. As a Christian Community, we need to bring them up like tender plants they care and care for them both physically and spiritually. Include them as much as possible to encourage their growth and faithfulness in Christ. So when their grown, they will be able to be like strong trees, planted by the living waters of life, bearing fruit for the Master.
